Cyber Sex… Do you take your sexy to the World Wide Web?
Written by: Shelly-Ann “Dr Sexy-Ann” Weeks
It’s the 21st Century and with the existence of the smart phones, tablets, and all other portable access devices and access to the internet, persons are expressing themselves sexually with the help of technology. From sexting to making your own adult movie – starring you – using technology can be a great way to keep the sexy in your relationship. Of course there are risks, and we have seen evidence of that since many persons have had to explain their sex tapes that went public. How can you use technology to enhance your sexy and still maintain your privacy? Here are some tips you can follow:
1. No head shots – If you are going to send a nude picture of yourself to your honey, don’t photograph your face. You boo already knows what your face looks like, so just capture the neck down.
2. Make sure both of you are visible – Many persons are curious to know what they look like during the throws of ecstasy so making a sex video can be fun and entertaining for both of you. Do not have your partner hold the camera on you while you get down and he/she is not visible. Than later when you are no longer in love that partner gets to release the recording without implicating themselves. Instead, place the camera at a point that it can capture both of you doing the nasty. So if you partner ever even thinks of releasing your private moment, he/she is also facing the scrutiny.
3. Erase after you enjoy – So after you make this video and watched it, laughed and enjoyed it, erase it. If you want to see yourself again, you can always make a new video.
4. Don’t post it online – Never post anything you don’t want the world to see online. I don’t care how much the website tells you that their privacy setting is solid, privacy settings can be penetrated. Especially social media, I am so sick of hearing people complaining that their social media page is not private enough. If your naked fun gets online, it can be accessed. Period.
5. Know the whereabouts of your sexy fun – Do you have naked pictures on your phone? Or stored on your computer? Where are all your sexy online activity stored? Know the location and passwords, and who may have access to it.
6. Webcam fun? You may own a webcam and have done fun, sexy things online with your partner, these sessions can be recorded. Check your setting to see if they are and monitor it so you don’t run the risk of persons gaining access without your permission.
Using technology can be fun, especially if you are in a relationship with someone who travels a lot for work. If you are in a long distance relationship, technology is how you stay in touch so you can’t avoid it. At the end of the day, take the precautions I highlighted and you will be able to enjoy your sexy fun and still maintain your privacy. Have fun and stay sexy!
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